You’re never going to get what you want in life when you’re trying too hard to be nice. That’s the view of Dr. Robert A. Glover, who says that “Nice Guy Syndrome” is ruining the lives and relationships of too many modern men. Nice Guy Syndrome isn’t about regular kindness (which is always appreciated). It’s […]
Don’t Overlook This Easy Upgrade
Look around. Is this environment supporting your best life? Switching up your surroundings can boost your mood, productivity levels, and general sense of well-being. But we often take our spaces for granted, when we should cultivate them consciously. Research shows that our environments at home and work influence our quality of sleep, the way we […]
How to Toughen Up
Every day you live and breathe is proof that you’re unstoppable. Your tenaciousness is a matter of fact, so you may as well believe it. You don’t have to feel emotionally bulletproof every day. We all have moments of weakness. But the evidence that you made it through yesterday strongly suggests that you’ll endure tomorrow. […]
How to Learn a Language in Three Months
Learning a new language is easier than you think, but old-fashioned methods like memorizing vocabulary lists aren’t going to cut it. Here’s the secret: get your head out of the books and start speaking to real people as soon as possible. The goal here is to spend more time speaking the language rather than studying […]
Cut Yourself Some Slack
Are you your own worst enemy? Your inner voice can be a harsh critic, comparing yourself to others and making you feel bad about yourself. When you beat up on yourself too often, it can have terrible long-term effects, sapping your happiness, self-confidence, and self-esteem. To cut down on self-criticism, start by reflecting on past […]
The Secret to Investing in Short-Term Rentals
Money matters are emotional because they’re tied to some of our most deeply held fears and aspirations. But if you want to be a successful investor, you must learn to put those feelings aside when it’s time to make a big decision. This rule is especially important when you’re investing in short-term rental and vacation […]
Raise Your Emotional IQ
With war in the headlines (again), we’re reminded that, at its worst, modern life can feel gray and hopeless. Hopelessness is an emotion that’s caused by difficult life events that are out of your control. But hope is an entirely different animal. In fact, hope isn’t an emotion at all. It’s a way of thinking. […]
Self-help for Pessimists
Have you ever forgotten to pay your phone bill? Or been late for an important meeting? Or misplaced your wallet (or your keys, or your passport…again)? If you’re feeling disorganized and out of sorts, you’re definitely not alone. You need to ask yourself what’s wrong with your life, pinpoint the cause, and figure out how […]
Who is Out to Get You?
In nature, some predators are camouflaged to better hunt their prey. The coloration of owls blends in seamlessly with the trees where they perch, watchful for dinner on the ground below. Green snakes blend into the leafy trees of the rainforest, while brown snakes almost disappear in the dirt. Human predators are the same way. […]
Impossible is a State of Mind
The Olympics, which ended on Sunday, were a good reminder that elite athletes routinely perform extreme feats that most of us consider impossible. Sure, their training schedules are intense. But researchers have found that mental state is just as important as physical ability and discipline to extreme athletes. Think about it: today’s runners can beat a […]
